Synastry Studies: More Sex…Venus revisited
"As we discussed in the Mars article, the markers of love and sex, Venus and Mars, are undergoing a slow evolution concerning the roles they play in our relationships. In the ‘old’ days, it was easy–Mars, men, sex; Venus, women, love. (It always seemed bizarre to me that no one accounted for the Moon in terms of sex, considering that the Moon rules the body and is also the seat of the psyche.) But the dance is shifting, things have been changing for a long time now, and it’s time to cast a fresh eye on Venus to see what rules still apply.
Venus can take on a lot of roles in a chart, ruling two signs and (usually) two houses as she does, but here we’re going to restrict our discussion to her role in expressing sexual love."
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